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20 Years Without You, Forever With Me

20 Years Without You, Forever With Me

Empower & Inspire, More About Chanee’
Twenty years ago, on January 15, 2005, my world was irrevocably changed when my beloved mother, affectionately known as Boo, passed away after a courageous battle with ovarian cancer. She was the cornerstone of our family, the nurturing spirit who guided my brother and me with unconditional love and unwavering support. The day she passed remains the worst day of my life. It felt as though the ground had been pulled out from under me. I was left grappling with a pain so profound it defied words. Losing your mother is a heartbreak I would not wish on anyone. Even now, the ache of her absence is ever-present. Life hasn’t been the same without her. I’ve had to navigate so many milestones and challenges without her physical presence—moments where her…
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My Reading Wrap-Up (January-March 2026)

My Reading Wrap-Up (January-March 2026)

Book Lovers
It’s April 2026, and I’ve been working my way through my reading goals. This year, my goal is to read twenty-four books, about two per month, and so far, I’m at eight books. Any books you see me post, I recommend, if that’s the genre you’re into of course. I don’t read books I don’t like. If I start something and it’s boring, I’m done. No forcing it. Sometimes I come back to a book later, and when I do, it hits differently. I’ve learned to trust that. That’s my sign that maybe I just wasn’t ready for the information that book held yet. Reading personal for me. It’s about timing, alignment, growth, and being honest about what resonates. I love a good thriller, memoir, or informational text that speaks…
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21 Years Later, Forever In My Heart

21 Years Later, Forever In My Heart

Empower & Inspire, More About Chanee’
Twenty years seems like an eternity. But I’m finally at a point in life where I can talk about Mommy without getting the urge to shut down and/or cry, which took twenty years by itself. About ten years ago, I decided I wouldn’t work on January 15, because it was always too sad. These days, while it’s still incredibly sad, I use the day of and the surrounding days to honor Mommy by taking care of myself and keeping her memory alive.  Over the years, I’ve written about my mother and how this time of year affects me.  All I can say is- therapy works!  Linked below are some of those posts I’ve written during the month of January.  January 2025: 20 Years Without You, Forever With Me January 2021:…
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Why I’m Starting Again

Why I’m Starting Again

Black Excellence, Empower & Inspire, More About Chanee’
Starting again. I know about this all too well, and depending on how long you’ve been supporting me, you know how many times I’ve started and stopped sharing my writing. I’ll come in heavy and stick it out for a few weeks, maybe even a month or two, then I’m gone until the next relaunch or reset.  But this time is different. This time, this year is much more personal.  And while this is personal and involves different planning in 2026 and beyond, there’s no pressure. No pressure to be perfect or to figure everything out at once. I’m not rushing to impress anyone. I’m aligned in my purpose and clear on my next steps.  This time, I’m starting again with clearer intent, boundaries, and understanding. I know myself better…
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In Her Honor: Why Ovarian Cancer Awareness Day Will Always Matter to Me

In Her Honor: Why Ovarian Cancer Awareness Day Will Always Matter to Me

Empower & Inspire, More About Chanee’
May 8 is recognized globally as World Ovarian Cancer Day. For me, it’s more than just a date on the calendar, it’s personal reminder. If you’ve been following me long enough, you know I lost my mother to ovarian cancer. Not just “lost” in the way we often say, but lost in a way that reshaped who I am and how I navigate life.. I was only a senior in high school when her diagnosis became our family’s new reality. The chemotherapy, the brave face, the hard conversations- all of it still lives vividly in my memory. Her absence left a space no one can fill, but her love and strength became the foundation of the woman I am becoming every single day. That’s why this day matters to me…
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Just Getting Started: When Healing Turns To Action

Just Getting Started: When Healing Turns To Action

Empower & Inspire, More About Chanee’
April 2025 is almost over, and I can say this with full confidence: I’m not done—I’m just getting started. I’ve posted four blogs this month. Four bold reflections. Four intentional declarations that I’m choosing me. Choosing joy. Choosing alignment. But it’s bigger than that. This year began with deep reflection. It marked 20 years since I lost my mother. Twenty years since everything changed. I honored her in January, and in doing so—I unknowingly rebirthed myself. That moment, that memory, that milestone—flipped a switch inside me. I’ve been writing again. Healing in a new way. Starting my next book, which will release later this year. Reclaiming parts of myself I thought were buried in grief. And it’s not just me walking this path. My family, my friends, my therapist—they’ve shown…
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Lessons in Self-Worth & Energy Protection

Lessons in Self-Worth & Energy Protection

Empower & Inspire
Let me start by offering this advice: Don’t chase people, places, or situations, choose them. And choose yourself first. That hasn’t always been the case for me. For a long time, I poured into people who didn’t even have a cup for me. I overextended, overexplained, and overcompensated—thinking that if I just tried harder, showed up more, proved myself again and again… they’d finally see me. But all that chasing left me drained. Tired. Frustrated. And honestly? A little resentful. So this season, I made a decision: I will no longer beg to belong. If it costs me my peace, my joy, or my sense of self, then it’s not for me-and that’s okay. This shift didn’t come easy. It came through tears, therapy, journaling, prayer, and real-life lessons. Choosing…
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Year 42: The Becoming Is Beautiful

Year 42: The Becoming Is Beautiful

Black Excellence, Empower & Inspire, More About Chanee’
Today, I celebrate 42 years of life, love, lessons, and leveling up. I started this year honoring the 20th anniversary of my mom’s passing—my angel, my first teacher, my forever light. That milestone reminded me how fragile and beautiful time really is. How each year we’re given is a gift. And how every birthday isn’t just about balloons and cake (though I love both.) about checking in, shedding old skin, And it isn’t just about getting older—it’s about becoming. Becoming softer. Stronger. Clearer. Bolder. And I can honestly say—the becoming is beautiful. So yes—I’m celebrating. Loudly, joyfully, colorfully. With fun, food, family, and friends. I’m making room for the next chapter. The one where I walk even more boldly in my purpose. There’s more to come—so much more—but today, I’m…
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Starting Over: New Season, New Standards

Starting Over: New Season, New Standards

Empower & Inspire
There’s something powerful about a fresh start—especially in April. The sun stays out longer, flowers are blooming, and you can almost feel life whispering, “It’s time.” Time to let go of what no longer fits. Time to raise the bar. Time to step into your peace. This month, I’m choosing to start over—on purpose. Not because I failed, but because I grew. And with growth comes new standards and new energy. I’m no longer forcing anything that feels heavy or draining. I’m protecting my peace and choosing what feels right for where I’m headed—not where I’ve been. So here’s your gentle reminder: you don’t need permission to pivot. If it no longer serves your peace, it’s okay to leave it in the past. This season is about renewal, and you…
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Thriving in the Face of Change

Thriving in the Face of Change

Black Excellence, Empower & Inspire
Recent times have brought uneasiness and a flood of information that can leave us feeling overwhelmed and confused. Recently, my therapist encouraged me to use my platform to share messages of hope and empowerment during these turbulent times. I’m sharing my thoughts in the hope that they can offer support and uplift someone who needs it. As the landscape of policies and priorities shift, we must remember that we are a people of unparalleled strength, intelligence, and resourcefulness. Our history is filled with triumphs over adversity, and that same spirit will carry us forward. Here’s how we can navigate these changes with purpose and power: 1. Stay Informed and Empowered • Knowledge is power. Understand how new policies impact key areas like voting rights, education, healthcare, and social programs. Stay…
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