
21 Years Later, Forever In My Heart
Twenty years seems like an eternity. But I’m finally at a point in life where I can talk about Mommy without getting the urge to shut down and/or cry, which took twenty years by itself. About ten years ago, I decided I wouldn’t work on January 15, because it was always too sad. These days, while it’s still incredibly sad, I use the day of and the surrounding days to honor Mommy by taking care of myself and keeping her memory alive. Over the years, I’ve written about my mother and how this time of year affects me. All I can say is- therapy works! Linked below are some of those posts I’ve written during the month of January. January 2025: 20 Years Without You, Forever With Me January 2021:…

